Saw an article, and... I think his view is right, so therefore, im sharing this on my bloggie.


韩剧中的爱情 与 现实中的爱情:

" 大家多多少少也有在电视上接触到韩剧吧，通常戏中令人动人又流下热泪的剧情都总离不开爱情，配上那个悲惨又可怜的音乐简直就是无得顶。像之前的 “冬季恋歌” 还有“蓝色生死恋” 来做例子，剧中的通常都会有一个痴情汉总是默默地 , 奋不顾身地在为女主角付出，甚至为爱殉情。而且这些大帅哥通 常都十分浪漫，体贴。 如果男生是个公子，那他肯定很豪气； 如果他是个“烂仔”，那他肯定为女主角洗心革面。可是，现实中哪有那么好的事？还有还有，戏里面 的女主角的异性缘通常都可以好到一个吸引两个男生或是令到两个兄弟都争相爱慕。那么受人宠爱的女人谁不想当呢？"

但是，可惜的是“此爱只有戏中有，人间难得尝一会”。在这爱情如快熟面的时代，只要方便和快就好，品质和保存期并不重要。这就解释了为什么有些人总 在韩据中寻找一些幻想和希望。因为她们要把对童话故事般的恋爱的渴望寄托在偶像们的身上。难怪有时候有些明星传出负面绯闻，他们的人气就会下降。那是因为 他们毁灭了影迷们在他们身上建立的希望。

而在同一时间里，我看了在同一面的文章。电视剧里面的女主角对男主角说 ：“我只要做一个简单的女人，找到一个疼我，爱我的好男人，然后和他结婚生子，白头到老”
这句话不知说了多少个女人的心声，女人也常问道：为什么这么简单的要求都无法实现？但是仔细想想，这个要求到底简单吗？

第一：人海茫茫，有这么简单可以找到一个疼我，爱我的好男人吗？

第二：这个好男人会疼我，爱我一辈子吗？我又如何担保他不会变心。他真的是哪个陪我白头到老的人吗？还是，他只不过是我生命中的另一个过客？

第三：我是不是能全心全意地去疼爱哪个对我呵护备至的男人呢？我真的原意为他奉献和付出我的一切吗？

这些疑问或许永远找不到答案，因为相遇，相爱到分手这幕戏每天都在我们的生活上演，可见原来简单女人的要求一点也不简单。

与其嘲笑这些戏迷们无知，不如学习她们对爱的乐观。戏里夸张的情节也许不可能发生，但纯粹的爱还是存在的。与其过分沉迷于据中的浪漫，不如把精神集中在现实的感情中。说不定在自己身上上演的爱情比剧种的更美丽。而更重要的是，它是真实的。"

from: http://jeremi.multiply.com/journal/item/50

Yup. Not simple to find the one... Every1 sure have some ideas in ur mind, how ur partner will be, if not, the rs also will ruin very fast. But of course i believe the word "包容". But how many times u can do this by urself, without ur oher party doing it with u? When darkness arrive, love lost its way too.

一段感情除了关怀,包容与相爱之外,更需要的是互信
爱情不是自私的想占有...而是宽容的对待


For my LOVE, it must contain: TRUST, care & concern, able to accept who I am, able to give me what i wanted, NO disappointment, and I wanted to be no1 (excluding is family members) in his heart! I want my prince charming to NEVER let me shed a tear, always shower me with care and happiness. Must be 大方，性格开朗, 一定要疼我.


Yea.. BUT 这个年代 哪里有这么完美的男人???
我又不是灰姑娘, nor i am SNOW WHITE... 哪会遇见?!
So all are just my dreams and hopes and bla bla bla...


认真的男人最帅~!

So now i must.... 对自己好一点!

要专注!

They say... you must have a goal in ur mind to keep u moving.

Yep, here's my goals.

• RESTART ALL OVER! "I'm a new me... No more looking back of the PAST!"

Yup! I read my previous posts which i wrote 2,3years ago... and i only had a word to describe myself: STUPID! Wadever it is... its all the past. I'm completely a different edelynn.

• SMILE SMILE SMILE!!!! "i look so ugly when i frown!"

Ya, smile will make me happy... and, improve my mood, makes my day better! Dun stop myself smiling and laughing!!

• DO THE BEST! "do more sales, be hardworking and u can see the results"

• Dun bother about stupid people who dun deserve, care more for kind ppl who deserve!

• Treat myself better! There's only 1 Edelynn LTL in this world! :)

• Lastly but most importantly, I must do the above~!!

元大鹰 so cute~~!

Yup, recently got so engross with 罗志祥! 元大鹰 !

Another 1 by the name of... 袁锦伦. Angeline say he is very popular in Malaysia... He's the prince charming.

LoL.

Yea... photos...~!






我给你幸福
你问我什么才是幸福
这个问题 反而让我
把你看个清楚

想你幸福
想不到分手你才幸福
是谁的错误
我不认输 我忍得住

你怕束缚
我的爱没能把你驯服
你没有退路
那倒不如爽快结束

我最喜欢挑战孤独
我也爱放下了包袱
没有谁 没难度 我最怕哭


**~~ 爱要爱得投入 ~~**

Found this poem in a certain website.

Hmm... many thoughts came out, this is 1 of the best poem i saw, so sharing it out... If Angeline read this, im sure she'll cry instantly...

"how can i stop crying, when the only one that can make me stop is the one who made me start?"

Then,

A good apology contains 3 parts:

1)i'm sorry..

2)it was my fault

3)how do i make it right?

***yeah..a lot of people usually miss the 3rd part.. ***

yea...

Yep. I fine today, in the very 1st min of the day... But my morale drop, feeling more sianz and more sianz...

I realised most who suffer from depression, and mental or personality disorder are mostly woman. WHY? Women heart are very soft, isn't it? Women are very emotional over relationship and her loved ones. But men? They tend to feel down mostly becuase of work, tired, or when they met failure. "Love" this word isn't so.... important to them (it seems). It might be important la, but not VERY.

I felt sad and pity at times when I see those mad woman who sits at bus-stop, coffee shop, talking to the air... Surely its must be a great blow to them, then they'll be so "lost".

Haiz. If i still dun make myself happy and pamper myself, sooner or later... I'll be mad. Seriously.

:(

Sad.... I'm really sad lah!!!

I wanted to eat, to sleep, to make myself HAPPY!!!

Trying my best to squeeze a smile out~~!!!!

Ya, just saw my sec school's website, erm... good website, I can see the school's achievements... The school song had changed!!! Wohw!!!

And now Miss Chinniah is a Senior Teacher!! Jane!! She no longer in Red Cross.

But, looking at my uniform group I joined... I can say... glad its still there, but, erm, no comments la...

But if i switch to look at my primary sch website... Its really, thumbs up! But website all bluff ppl de..

Can still see familiar faces over the website, really miss the past.

:)

Woo... memories... and thats Shahidan~~~ the 9pts scorer... and that teacher, i forgot her name, is one of those we threw rotten eggs at~! Haha...

Edelynn say, i am healthy and strong!

When LOVE meets problems, especially when facing 3rd party issue or money issue, does TRUE LOVE still exist??


I must have an answer by 4th Sep, the latest... so i can cancel whatever needed... before having to be played another month...

Am i a toy? A money plant? Or just cuz u really need help? Am i foolish? I did that because i tot its love, and still something i could do... But... the word slipped off our mouth tonight.

Went back to Vivo for Jolin's birthday cake, cllected it for her behalf. I choosen Black Forest for her, but it dint came out to be that delicious n yammy as i tot... :(

Then headed for some photo shot...

I like the night scene at Vivo... its so nice and relaxing, but always spoiled but some nusisance couples who treated that place like "hotel"... Kiss and hug and touch each other like nobody business... Its a public place!!! And Vivocity is one of the Asian's most known shopping malls... Some even still wearing school uniform! How awful it is!

And i realise those who is doing that kind of things are those who are either very young, like school children, or those who are old - old uncle with china woman, and / or those who aren't pretty or handsome.

I mean, if u are so excited over the relaxed and romantic atmosphere, hug and kiss is okay la... But students go there and LC for mins and mins... and i even saw a china couples lying down on the floor and hug together. Puke, it disguested me.

Yes, yes, another worst thing about Vivocity is... Basment 2's toilet is worst than coffee shop's toilet!!! Sometimes, u'll failed to find toilet paper, see pads lying in the toilet, and worst worst worst, no water in the toilet~~~ cant flush, cant wash ur hand!!! Vivocity, yes, im talking abt Vivocity... Basment 2~!

Yes, and congratulations to Singapore 1st Olympic metal~! Cheers...

Came across with Tammi's blog, and found 1 article... Regarding what is love and her peception of love.

I quoted this from her blog...

LOVE means that you would do ANYTHING for someone without asking why.

LOVE means that NO MATTER WHAT, you would NOT walk behind, NOT walk in front, but you would walk BESIDE that special someone.

LOVE means that no matter what life may bring, LOVE would be right there until the end.

LOVE means that you would be there to wipe away tears when there're sad, Laugh with them, cry with them, spend time with them, not be afraid to hold hands in public, treat them with respect, honor there wishes, PROTECT them, and if the time came be WILLING to lay down your LIFE for them.

LOVE means taking care of someone when they are sick, picking them up when they fall, and not being ashamed or to proud to say "I'm Sorry" or "I was wrong".

LOVE IS PURE, LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL, LOVE IS JUST, LOVE IS POWERFUL!!

LOVE means trying to work things out instead of just quitting.

LOVE means that you are always thinking about the one you love.

LOVE means that you would give everthing up in a heartbeat if that is what it would take to be with that someone,

and finally...

LOVE means COMMITMENT.
IF you REALLY love someone you are Committed to them for the rest of your lives.

LOVE means that even when they get grouchy, get a few wrinkles, gain some weight, lose some hair.....you will STILL LOVE THEM!!

LOVE means that you LOVE someone for WHO they are and not for what you EXPECT them to be.

LOVE is NOT lust, LOVE is not a one night stand, LOVE is not a fling.When you REALLY LOVE somone and someone REALLY LOVES you, there will be NO second guessing because you will know.

LOVE can be Fragile and should be handled with care and not taken lightly.When you get ready to tell someone that you love them, DONT say it unless you MEAN it!!

LOVE is a BEAUTIFUL thing when you mean it, but it can also be hurting if you dont.SO when you say "I LOVE YOU", I hope that it just isnt words coming from the mouth, but instead words of sincerity.

and i like her own opinion on what love is... She is still the same Tammi i known in NYP, dare to say, dare to do. She admits she do not know the truth meaning of Love, what mentioned above are just definition and the surface of the word LOVE.

She also commented, most impt now is to WORK....

Yup, i do agree. I should leave my "trouble" behind first... and WORK for more money!!!

Anyway, i failed to believe the meaning of "LOVE"... AND DO NOT THINK ANY1 AROUND MY AGE WILL KNOW.



PS: i need some time to MIA... i dunno what i'll burst out everything to you two... but... But... I really feel very embarrassing on that day. Pls pls forgive me...

Today is National Day...

Happy birthday Singapore!!!

And Old Chang Kee is having $1 for all their items...

Yesterday was 08-08-08.

The day before was 07-08-08, under lunar calender, it is Qi Xi... and it was my bf and mine 2nd anniv...

Well, i did my hair extension again... No more curly ones as before, this time i did a straight extension... Didnt really like it...

Yep.

Today is a happy day, everything seems so nice. I guess its Angeline and Michelle's jokes, and the new guy's improvement... everything is so smooth for me.

Yep, tmr off... today nothing to do, must sleep the whole tonight and tomorrow!!!

I miss Louis.
I miss Christoher, he mia.
I miss the nokia ear-piece, its lost.
I miss the hair extension!!! Esp seeing Angeline's one is so nice...

Yep :)